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How Competitive are You?

On By bennettsportsgaloreIn competition, Sports, Team, UncategorizedLeave a comment

Competition, it’s everywhere, its in your schools. It finds ways into your friendships and it is most definitely in your athletics. Competition can be a good and bad depending on how you take it. Competition could drive you to do your best or it could push you to meet a specific goal. It also can be a bad thing like if you are so competitive that you start to cheat to win or even hurt your opponent just so you can beat them, that’s when it starts to get out of hand. I know sometimes I start to take competition the wrong way, like sometimes I’ll look at my opponent and try to be like them or perform as well as them instead of focusing on myself and how I can improve my own abilities.  Sometimes I start to compare myself to them and if I’m not as good as them in almost every physical aspect, then I will sit there and only focus on that while they are probably only worried about getting themselves better.

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I know a lot of times during football I would start to compare myself to other players. There was one game we lost this year against NLS. I looked at them coming onto their field and noticed how much bigger they were then our team and how fast they were so during our warm ups I spent a lot of the time just watching them and asking myself if I can be as fast as them instead of actually getting prepared for the game. So when the game came around It kinda hit me like a truck because I wasn’t prepared and ready to face a team of that size because the whole warmup instead of getting ready I was staring at them.  So it took me almost half way through the game to actually get focused and by then they were already up by too much for us to make comeback. If I would have just focused on myself and used the competition I had to push myself to get more prepared and ready I could have maybe played better and our team could have won that game. For the rest of that year instead of comparing myself to others or trying to get a head start to beat someone so it looked like I was faster, I started to use other team mates and motivation to drive myself to my goals.  I focused on getting myself faster and bigger. I started to focus on how big I was at the time instead of how much bigger others are then me and feeling bad because I am not like them.Dragon Football vs GSL Panthers

Don’t Doubt Us!

On By bennettsportsgaloreIn Doubt, Hard work, SportsLeave a comment

There are many times in our lives when we either experience people doubting other people or people doubting you specifically. We even end up doubting ourselves and the skills we lack at times. I see it happen all the time during sports, whether it is during a baseball game or a hockey/football practice, doubt is everywhere and you can’t avoid it. I know I have doubted other people whether it be that they do not have the right skills for a certain job or task. I even having a little problem doubting myself. A large part of the times during sports if I see a kid bigger or faster than me I start to doubt myself and say there is no way I can beat him. Once this happens I start to lose confidence, which lowers my ability to play and then I actually have no chance of keeping up with the opponent. Lately though I have been trying to tell myself I can do this, I kind of hype myself up and get ready to play against a good opponent. If I do not doubt myself and come in confidence I Play much, much better and usually end up either keeping up or beating the opponent.

Dragons Football vs WM Royals

One real life example could be last year during the hockey season, we were doing fairly well but Luverne was doing very good and winning many of their games by multiple points. At the beginning of the season we all set a goal for  ourselves that we were going to make to the state tournament no matter what. After almost every practice we would run sprints and do dry land for almost an hour trying to make sure that no team was more conditioned than us. It was showing too, almost every game we played you could see that in the third period each team was dog tired except for us. We ended up marching our way through the playoffs and making it to the finals. The team we had to go up against was Luverne. The game was pretty even throughout the whole thing until the third period hit. We had been working them the whole game and it showed because during the third period they could hardly skate while we were still fresh and cruising around. We ended up beating Luverne and moving on to the state tourney. Almost everyone that saw that matchup was doubting us because of how good they looked during the regular season, but when it came down to it we buckled down and defeated them.

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How Privileged are you?

On By bennettsportsgaloreIn Education, Privileges, SportsLeave a comment

There are many times in my life where either something doesn’t go my way or I don’t get what I want and I start to complain, but I never stop to think that there are many kids that don’t have what I have. There are many kids in the world that would like to play sports like I do but don’t have the privileges to. I know my life would be tough without sports so just to think that there are kids out there that don’t have the privilege to play or even try the sports they want to try is sad. Even with school, I always complain about how we get so much homework or how dumb school is, but there are many kids in the world that don’t ever get the chance to go to school and never get to get a good education.  I also have the privilege to say what I feel or think without getting into trouble unlike some countries where speaking your mind is illegal and not allowed.

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I know our coaches in hockey and football are constantly reminding us that playing the sport is a privilege not a right and that there are many, many kids throughout the world that would kill to be where we are at, to be able to play sports but they are either not allowed or can’t afford it. Sometimes I get into my spoiled moods where I want everything to go my way, but when this happens I need to remember to think about all the kids that would die to be in the position I am in. Same with what we were, I have a cousin that goes to a school where they have uniforms and can’t wear what they want. I never realized how many privileges we have compared to other people. Like there are people who can hardly find a way to get food and water in the world and I am here complaining about getting too much homework. When I stop and think about what I am complaining about most of the time it is a pointless reason.

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How Important is it to Fit in?

On By bennettsportsgaloreIn Fitting in, FriendshipLeave a comment

Say there is a new kid coming to the school, is he coming from a place from very far away so he may not be like most students at this school. The first thing he tries to do is to make friends. He comes up to one group of kids that he asks if he could hangout with them and they say no. Later he comes up to another group of kids and asks if he can hangout out with them and they say only if he dresses like the rest of them. The boy wants to fit in so desperately that he decides to change he inspire way of dressing just to be friends with them.

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I know that it is hard sometimes to make friends when you go to new places. Sometimes it seems like you’re so much different from everyone else around you. So you start to listen and see how they act or dress so you can start to do the same just so that maybe they will notice you and start to talk to you or become your friend. I feel like many kids in my school feel like they need to fit in like if they don’t fit in they have no friends or they are a nobody. I do feel like having friends is a good thing while in high school but I don’t think you need to change the way you are or how you dress just to fit into a specific group of kids. I believe the best way is to just be yourself around everybody and soon enough you will start to discover kids that are just like you or have the same interests as you. 

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I remember my first year of varsity hockey I was just a freshmen but because of my age I got to tryout with the older kids so I didn’t really have any friends up with me. When I made varsity I realized that I didn’t even know anybody else on the team expect for like three kids and I still wasn’t even friends with them. It made it hard to play and to talk with them because they all seemed to have their own groups that they hangout with. So I started to feel like maybe if I acted like them around them they notice and start talk to me more. I tried that and it just didn’t feel right so throughout the year I just acted like myself because that’s the only thing I could think of that would work. By the end of the year I have made a couple really good friends just by being myself around them and discovering that we all had things in common and interests that were the same.